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Video; Fiddlesticks Day 15, Gaming Car
[Yugi had spent some time with Kaiba playing a few games before the other finally seemed to fall asleep. So instead of leaving him and simply heading back, he's decided to stick around and think over a few things.
One of the things he had been pondering about is about their relationship in general. It was vastly different now. They weren't rivals or even friends at this point. They were an actual couple. Which means things were different in a few ways. One being actual dates, which for the most part has mostly been gaming. But then he wondered if that was an actual date.
Thus the point of the post when he finally gets around to it. One upside was the fact that only Yugi could be seen, which was what he wanted.]
Uh... Hi there. [He gives a small and somewhat awkward wave for the most part.]
Can I ask something for those who are in relationship on the train, or on their world or... both if you were lucky enough to have your partner with you? [He paused briefly before appearing to looking slightly down and to the side, checking on something or someone.]
When it comes to dating: Is there a difference between hanging out and an actual date? Also for someone who might not have ever been in an... actual relationship before is there any advice when it comes to dates and such? This might sound rather... silly... So maybe just ignore it.
One of the things he had been pondering about is about their relationship in general. It was vastly different now. They weren't rivals or even friends at this point. They were an actual couple. Which means things were different in a few ways. One being actual dates, which for the most part has mostly been gaming. But then he wondered if that was an actual date.
Thus the point of the post when he finally gets around to it. One upside was the fact that only Yugi could be seen, which was what he wanted.]
Uh... Hi there. [He gives a small and somewhat awkward wave for the most part.]
Can I ask something for those who are in relationship on the train, or on their world or... both if you were lucky enough to have your partner with you? [He paused briefly before appearing to looking slightly down and to the side, checking on something or someone.]
When it comes to dating: Is there a difference between hanging out and an actual date? Also for someone who might not have ever been in an... actual relationship before is there any advice when it comes to dates and such? This might sound rather... silly... So maybe just ignore it.
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But a date is more a planned thing. Something you deliberately set up to spend time with that special someone for the sole purpose of being with them with romance in mind. So I'd say a date would be more intimate, in a deliberate way, than just hanging out. [Gladio thought about that some and then laughed.] Not that you can't do that when you're just hanging out.
See? Not much difference other than a date is something that usually takes more planning. Least as I see it.
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It really sounds like there aren't all that many differences. I figured I was worrying over nothing really, but I figured I should ask regardless. Though on a train, how does one be able to find moments for such things? I think that's one that I've been trying to figure out.
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A private date probably isn't going to be something you'll be able to enjoy unless you plan for that as well. We could definitely do with more space here.
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[He at least appreciated it at least.]
I wonder if we could attempt to ask the train for something for those who want those moments on the train and not hoping to get lucky to be able to be affectionate if they aren't used to showing public displays of affection for example. [or being able to when he is in fact asleep. It was cute, though.]
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Just takes a bit more organising. Hard to be really spontaneous when you're surrounded on all sides.
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But overall it sounds like in order to have alone Time you basically have to plan for it.
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In a place like this where there's more people than space? Yeah. You can hang out and having other people around isn't a bother. But you don't really want that on a date. So it takes more planning.
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I guess day or afternoon might be the best times I suppose, but I think I understand how important planning is at least.
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Lets face it, Yugi. Dates would be nice. But they're not important. If you have someone you care about just being with them, no matter where it is or what you two do, will be special. Just enjoy that time.
And if you get the chance to have a date, go for it. Use the cinema. When someone throws a party, go there and dance. If there's time at the beginning or end of a mission like last time, take that time. Just being with the one you like is the best feeling.
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Just make the most of it when you can basically?
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[Gladio smiled reassuringly.]
Just enjoy what time you guys have.
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[Even if that was all they did, that could be considered as enough, right? He would at least be content with that.]
So when you make the most of it, what do you do?
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Play to your interests. Learn new things. Even something as simple as sitting in a quiet corner and talking. Anything and everything you do can be made into something to share with someone important.
Okay, some exceptions, but most of the time? Company can't hurt.
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I think I understand but... What do you mean by some exceptions?
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I don't know about you, kid, but I'm not the type who likes company when I use the can. That is an exception.
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Well, that is most definitely an exception. I am sure there are others, but that would have to be the top one.
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[Hey if his roomie is asking about this then things must've progressed wonderfully since the last time they'd spoken about it, right?]
And uh.. I don't know if I'm the best person to ask since this is kind of new to me too? But, uh.. I think hanging out and an actual date are different because of the effort you put into it. Like, hanging out is cool and you should totally do that as often as you can, but dates are special.
[He thought about what he and Gladio did.]
We haven't really done one yet. I'm not sure what we'd do around here.
[But now that Yugi has him thinking about it...]
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That's what I was thinking, but then I wasn't sure, so I figured I'd ask those who have more experience.
[he paused and crossed his arms slightly to think about it.]
Well we have that cinema now, don't we? You can always watch a movie, or try and cook something. [He had the ideas it seems, but he also saw them as just more ways to be considered hanging out as well.]
I think cooking is the better option if it's something you cook yourself because then it's more planned and special, right?
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I don't know if my cooking would be appreciated. He'd likely end up in the med room.
[He was a walking disaster in the kitchen.]
But if you're good at it, then yeah, that'd be a great date idea. Even cooking together would be kind of fun, don't you think? Like if both of you were into that. You could get a blanket and make a picnic somewhere like uh.. the rock garden or the dressing carriage. You could read a book together in the quiet room.
I wish there were more places you could be alone though.
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[Yugi didn't actually know how great he would be, but he figured not as bad as to make someone go to the medical carriage. He hoped anyway.]
Cooking together does kind of sound like fun. Though not sure where one would actually get a blanket for a picnic from. [But he nodded slightly.]
There really isn't a lot of places one can and it's not really something I would have really thought about before now. But for those with a special someone they seem to have to do a lot more to get that time.
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[He shrugged.]
Just pull a blanket off your bed or there are some extra in the hallway closets. I've used a few sheets for sewing projects. Oh hey, you could also get him a gift! Like maybe make one of the bears look like you?
[He giggled a little at that last remark, knowing how true it was.]
Well, I don't know about everyone else but I have a very awesome roommate who lets me have some privacy whenever I need it. You know I'd do the same for you, right?
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[He had at least already given it a shot and was okay, but nothing special. So long as he knew what he was doing at least. But he sat and listened to the other, taking in various ideas for things he could do.]
I don't think I am creative enough to pull off making a bear look like me. [The hair would probably be the hardest part really.]
it just seems logical to do that. Though right now, I wouldn't need the same thing, that would take a long time before I even get to that point where I would need that kind of privacy.
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Well just because you aren't having sex doesn't mean you don't deserve some privacy. We'd clear out for other stuff too if you wanted. Do you think he'd ever want to become our roommate if something happens to Merciless?
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Well so far we've had some privacy by going to certain areas at certain times. [Those were more little dates or just simply alone time together more than anything. But it took the other a while to stop himself from blushing to much before speaking again]
I... wouldn't want to really think of anything happening to Merciless, but I guess it can happen sometimes... If it did, I don't know. Don't you have someone else you'd want to invite as well?
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[He nodded too. He didn't want anything happening to his roommate, even if she's so far never talked to him. It was a little awkward, but he wasn't going to push his luck.]
If it was just my room, definitely. But we're okay with our routine and I'd be happy having Kaiba in there too. I like him, he seems cool.
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][And also where it was compared to the dining car also counts.]
He is cool in his own way. I could understand why people would like him.
[So long as they didn't talk to him, but even then some probably wouldn't care for various reasons.] But I'll guess I'll keep that in mind should that...unfortunately happen, which I kind of hope doesn't.
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Anyway, thanks for some of those ideas. I think I'll try making up a date for Gladdy and Noct.
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[Video]
Strictly out of curiosity, of course.
On the other hand? Nita actually has an answer for Yugi's question, so she focuses on that for now.]
Well, if both of you are thinking of it as a date, then it counts. But... I'd say you don't have to have dates to be in a relationship?
It's up to taste, really - and since this is a train and not, say, high school, go with what makes the two of you feel comfortable.
Uh, should that be a general 'you', or?
[Nita chuckles a little, sheepish.]
You don't have to answer, I'm sorry.
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[After all this whole thing is not something either of them are at all used to, so it was better to try and keep it like that in the best way possible.]
A general you? [he wasn't sure of the exact answer or if he should really go into details about certain things without talking to the one who is currently fast asleep and someone he didn't want to wake up right now.]
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Welllll, it's not like we have a real 'anonymous' feature on this train; we can leave it open-ended if you'd rather.
[Or just if the other party's asleep and hasn't seen this yet.]
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I mean, unless you're sure they're listening in, probably best not to broadcast it without letting them know, right?
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