It makes sense. People here don't know him that well, and they aren't going to know him if he doesn't tell them. You're allowed to ask for what you want. It's a lesson he'd learned at home, even if he backslides sometimes, and he needs to do better at remembering it.

But Inigo continues on, and his mind wanders down that new line of thought. He hasn't been opening up to people - only when he's falling apart and in desperate need of comfort - and...well, there's good reason for that. There are so many people here who are hurting, who need that same help, and he's a healer; who is he to lean on them when they need that support themselves? Isn't that selfish?

"I'm supposed to take care of them," is all he says, not really realizing that his train of thought has taken him away from the original question.