Lans aren't into arranged marriages, if that's what you mean. In the sense that we set ourselves up with someone, and then it's one and done, yeah. Not for all clans, but it is for mine.

( if you want to meet a clan of calmly repressed 40+ year old virgins, welcome. He sees zero odd about anything of the sort, and doesn't judge the otherwise, just finds it startling. )

Yeah, well... desperate's not a good look. Don't get into something rash just because of that, all right?

( It's a hamfisted way of saying "you're worth more than that" but hey. )