I mean, yeah, of course there's more to it. I know there is something more to it, but I don't know if I can put my finger on it. I guess if they make me happy... if they like flirting with me and I find them cute... I guess if I know they're a good person, I don't feel bad about being attracted to them, and I figure it out from there.

[Sometimes kindness makes someone more attractive too, but explaining that might go worse than just explaining attracting in general.]