[She's trying but this is hard!! Boys and girls are pretty well defined in Octarian culture, since a majority of their people are genetic clones of their parent. But then there are also Octolings like her which are born the 'natural' way...]

So... your parents thought you were a girl... but you were actually a boy...? Mmm... or is it, like, you're a girl that uses a boy style?

[Sorry, Rich, she's not trying to be insensitive. This is just a new idea for her.]