From my experience that doesn't involve much in the way of talking and, therefore, stupid questions.

[Honestly, she's good with either]

Although I suppose there is a certain amount of negotiation involved when one's particular count of simultaneous partners moves beyond "one."

[Oh right they're talking about a missing brain aren't they]

Do let me know if you find it. I would be interested in knowing what it got up to while no one was looking.