[He writes more notes down in his notebook] I'll think of something along the way. I can't think of anything else for now, other than figuring out what's everyone into and just go with the flow.

Cakes and gifts are good offerings. From where I'm from, we leave flowers and burn incenses sticks and candles and put pictures of the loved one to remember them by. But I think presents and making people happy is the theme, to help people remember.